Monday, April 20, 2026

AI for Mentoring

 

Like reflection, I find it hard to reach out for mentoring. 4 complaints quickly come to mind:

1.       Perhaps it is because I see so many activities that need to be done, I find it hard to take the time to get perspective from a mentor.

2.       Perhaps I find it challenging to make myself vulnerable in sharing my thought processes.

3.       Perhaps I believe that I see work processes so clearly, it is hard to feel like finding a mentor with the right experience will be worth the effort in obtaining it.

4.       Perhaps I have too much hubris in thinking what I see as the issue is in fact the root cause to be addressed.

The more I learn, the more I realize that my 4 complaints hold me back. Failing to discuss my situation with a coach or a mentor misses the many benefits building on others experiences. Bennett et al, deals with many of my issues in Chapter 13.

Extreme teaming and interdisciplinary work, consistently state that our individual experience is not the only truth. Different disciplines view problems through different lenses and solve with different frameworks. Additional perspectives and framing allow insight into an issue that a single perspective may leave obfuscated.

Beyond the text, there are many sources of mentorship guidance for my communities. Virginia Tech publishes a guide for developing a mentoring relationship with goal of developing as a member of a profession. The Navy offers programs in several commands in the local district. Each of them focus on a partnership built of trust, likely to allow for the psychological safety. Each calls for transparency of expectations, purposes, and respect, so as to ensure both parties can devote resources appropriately. Outside of my supervisors, I have found it hard to square my schedule with a regular meeting, even for coffee and discussion of our organization. AI In Your Coffee Cup: The Future Of Personalized Brewing

Interestingly, consulting an AI addresses my 4 complaints. Because AI is such a low threshold, I believe the technology will further supplant our relationships as sources for answers and mentoring. Why ask a friend when one can ask Google for a detail? Why setup a meeting when Claude, Cortana, and ChatGPT are ready to give advice without a search? In each case, the quality of the AI response remains unknown and changes without examination. The act of acquiring the mentor or coach, while taking time, develops because of confidence in their experience, decision-making, or coaching ability. While some would argue that the range of advice of available from multiple AI’s gives greater benefit than a mentor, the mentor relationship provides a connection and contribution beyond the answer.

Despite all of this, several of my coworkers have developed beneficial mentor relationships. I see time blocked in their schedules, usually in a junior / senior relationship, to build the awareness from the experience of others. Clearly, AI hasn’t supplanted this relationship yet. Knowing the value, NSF requires mentoring, but I wonder how much of it will be supplanted by AI.

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